Relationships

Couples
Carder works on relationship issues with many of his clients. He focuses on the strengths within the relationship and creates an environment that is safe and loving for the couple to speak respectfully to each other. Carder has helped individuals reclaim themselves within the context of the couple and works to break the cycle of co-dependency. He teaches each partner to become less reactive and more open and willing to listen.

Relationships are wonderful but can also be very complicated and difficult. Carder focuses on the rebuilding of trust in the relationship. When trust is fractured in a relationship, a couple may become uncertain whether it is possible to heal. Carder will facilitate the decision making process through support and an honest exploration of each partner’s needs and desires. He helps the couple remember that love is still present. He encourages them to speak truthfully and reminds them not take things personally.

Families
Healthy communication is the key to finding balance within a family. Most family members have dysfunctional ways of speaking to one another. Poor communication hinders the growth of the family. Many families suffer from years of unresolved conflict and never seek help. Carder provides a safe environment for families to work out their differences. He teaches methods for peaceful resolution that include speaking in a supportive and non threatening manner. Carder shows the family how to break the cycle of anger. He has helped many families practice forgiveness and once again find happiness.